Favourite Quote: “This being human” by Rumi
January 6, 2009
I thought it would be appropriate to offer a reflective piece of poetic wisdom as the New Year begins : we need all the wisdom we can receive, especially in relation to the dark thoughts, the shame and the malice from which no person is immune – could we but take responsibility for those shadow qualities in ourselves as individuals and nations, refraining from projecting them onto others, the world would probably be less fractured than it is….
” This being human “
This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all
even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture.
Still treat each guest honourably,
he may be clearing you out
for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.
from the Persian poet Rumi
(1207-1273)


Learning to accept all the parts of yourself, to deny nothing, is to finally learn compassion for others.
One of the things Jung said, which always returns to offer me help and support when I am wrestling with the more difficult and unattractive facets of my own nature, is to the effect that our major task in this life is the integration of opposites. That is why this poem by Rumi has also inspired me for a very long time, and continues to do so. Denying our own shadow qualities individually or collectively, does not bring peace……
Thank you for your pertinent comment.
You are welcome. I enjoy reading your thoughts on our so transient existence. I am forwarding this site on to a friend.
Thanks again, emaria! I have been too busy being a student again to do much PR for my blog of late, so it is very kind that you are passing the link to your friend.